I realize many men enjoy being the receiver of anal sex along with women, but for the sake of simplicity in this how-to, I will use her to denote the receiver. No offense meant guys!nnSo you want to have anal sex? You've taken the first step by opening this article to get some good information about having successful anal sex. Desiring anal sex is a perfectly normal want. Okay, so there are going to be people who snarl their nose at the idea or think it's disgusting, but don't let them color your perceptions or cool your desire.nnAnal sex can be immensely pleasurable for both the giver and receiver. The plethora of nerve endings around the sphincter causes the intense pleasure that can felt during anal sex. However, anal sex is not something you can just dive right into. If the receiver has never participated in anal play, it may take anywhere from a few days to a few weeks to get her ready to graduate to something as large as a penis or dildo.nnThere are several keys to working your way up to anal sex. While not all people will need to follow every step, they are good guidelines to follow in order to make your anal sex encounter as enjoyable as possible.nn Relaxation: Very important for successful play, relaxation can make or break your session. No matter how turned on she might be, if she's tense when it comes time for insertion, she's not going to enjoy it as much. Many actions can be taken to relax and prepare her. Soothing music, a glass of wine, even a hot bath beforehand can all lend to relaxation of her body and muscles. A massage leading into more sexual play can be beneficial as well.nnArousal: Being turned on can go a big way into helping easy the way for anal sex. Don't go straight for her ass. Regular foreplay is a must before even attempting anal play.